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    Hitting your children

    When is it okay, if at all?

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    If they are brats that dont want to behave it is fine to spank them,if they are being very bad on purpose it's fine to slap them.
    They might cry a bit but it doesnt matter cuz there is no damage but they will remember not to do whatever they did that was wrong.
    If you have a great relationship with your kid it might not be needed cuz it will be enough to talk to them.
    It's common parenting idk why the fuck are you so surprised about this.
    Maybe it's not so common seeing how many pussy ass sjw and feminists we have online

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    Yes.

    (not for abuse of course)
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    i think it's kind of an obtuse way to educate or to punish

    each slap you give them is a slap to you as a father. You're not only doing something wrong, you've also done something wrong even before if you got to that point.


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    When is it okay, if at all?
    If you were my kid, I smacked you sense in. That for sure.

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    i think it's kind of an obtuse way to educate or to punish

    each slap you give them is a slap to you as a father. You're not only doing something wrong, you've also done something wrong even before if you got to that point.
    well spoken

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    Kids shouldn't be slapped. If physical punishment is done in a purely disciplinary way than i think its mostly a cultural thing at that point, have seen both good and bad examples of it. Stuff like slapping is just bordering on abusive tho if not out right, granted context still matters, and ppl can overreact with throwing the abuse label too soon.

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    If you do it and it doesn't actually harm them, then that's your prerogative as a parent.

    To use it as your go to method of discipline is just bad parenting though.
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    Parents should be able to find better parenting ways than physical force.


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    will never lay a hand on them

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    If it comes to the point that you need to slap them then you've already failed as a parent. There are better ways to teach your kids without resorting to using fear.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pimp of Pimps View Post
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    If you do it and it doesn't actually harm them, then that's your prerogative as a parent.

    To use it as your go to method of discipline is just bad parenting though.
    How do you hit a kid without hurting them?

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    Intense training

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    Some kids need to be whooped, especially this current gen, cuz verbal parenting alone ain't getting through to them
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    Yes.

    (not for abuse of course)
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    How do you hit a kid without hurting them?
    my aunt punished my cousin with a rolled newspaper of all things

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    Quote Originally Posted by Void View Post
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    my aunt punished my cousin with a rolled newspaper of all things
    She treated him like a fly

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    I have mixed feeling about it because culturally spanking in normal. Hell, culturally, abuse is normal to us. It's the way we grow up here, and we all seem fine. However, a study published by the University of Michigan claims that it could lead to mental health problems in adulthood. https://news.umich.edu/childhood-spa...alth-problems/

    In hindsight I see it, but I'm not sure if it's caused by spankings, or bad parenting. However, I will say that my friends who were never spanked are far better adjusted.

    My childhood abuse is perhaps the biggest reason I don't want to have children because I know for a fact I will abuse them. I'm not the exception to the rule who will never hit my child because I know how awful that is. I will just become the monster I once feared.


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    Quote Originally Posted by DoflaMihawk View Post
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    How do you hit a kid without hurting them?
    Meaning cause slight pain without any bruising, swelling it.
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    Anything done out of love I think is ok. Slapping not so much especially on the face although I've seen kids get slapped. Not hard or anything just like watch your mouth kind of a warning. Excessive spanking or slapping is out of bounds though.

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    Children should know disclipline, but not abuse.

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    Children should know disclipline, but not abuse.

    My mom works at a daycare and she tells me how there's no discipline.

    Obviously you wouldn't hit such a small child but I'm talking about things like letting them wear super thin clothes when it's freezing outside because it's their choice.
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    No.​

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